This book puts forth a beautiful description of what constitutes an ideal guru as well as an ideal disciple. Currently many different beliefs about a guru are prevalent and hence people become very confused about how to find the right guru. Perplexing questions on this matter have been asked to Param Pujya Dadashri (master of spiritual science), and he has given answers to the point of total satisfaction of the questioner.
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